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I have been a girly girl since I was little. I have always loved the colour pink, dresses and handbags. It has definitely been a part of me for most of my life so far.

I wanted to make a guide for anyone wanting to be more girly or embrace their femininity!

Even if you’re not naturally girly, there are still things you can incorporate into your routine whilst still being your true self. Don’t force yourself to like girly and feminine things.

I do just want to point out that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being girly, if you love to wear the colour pink and feel like a princess that is completely okay! It’s all about caring less about what others think, which takes time but all you can do is embrace it fully and act confident, and in time you will start to feel it!

1. Add girly clothing and accessories to your wardrobe

When looking for more feminine styles, anything with pleats, frills and puffed sleeves are good options. Anything that is stereotypically more feminine.

For more dressed up looks, dresses and skirts with pleats. If you want a more casual style a pair of leggings or jeans with a frilly top will look so good, but honestly it’s whatever you feel most confident in.

2. Wear makeup

Just a touch of makeup can go a long way with making you feel feminine. A bit of concealer, blush and mascara and either a lipstick/lip-gloss are the essentials, for a pop of colour a shimmery eye shadow in pink or a light colour will make your eyes pop.

3. Maintain good personal hygiene

This is pretty self explanatory, mainly the main things you probably do on a daily basis, like cleaning your body, washing your hands, and brushing teeth 2x a day. The typical daily things that make for good hygiene. Another way to have good hygiene is to always take your makeup off after the day!

4. Make self-care a priority

There is nothing nicer than pampering yourself. Having set self-care days can help to make it more part of your routine, for me, Sunday is a self care day but it can be any day that suits you. Some self-care habits are: eye masks, exfoliating face and body, putting a face mask on, journalling, lighting a candle, drinking your water ( do this everyday). Treat yourself, you deserve it.

5. Use perfume

Wearing perfume is such a quick way to feel feminine. Whenever I spritz myself with perfume I instantly feel girly. Scents that smell like Vanilla, Floral or Sweet are girly. I will link some feminine perfumes that you can try: Sweet Like Candy by Ariana Grande, https://amzn.to/3Jlo0tq one of my favourite perfumes, any perfume by Ariana Grande are good girly scents, another perfume by Ariana this one is Thank U, Next it smells so fruity and floral and the bottle is so pretty.https://amzn.to/3vTpok0

A final perfume recommendation is a Victoria’s Secret fragrance, Velvet Petals. A floral and girly scent, even the name is girly. https://amzn.to/4aU3EDv

6. Be more gentle

Being gentle or ‘soft’ just means being respectful, kind and empathetic to others. Nothing more important than using your manners they cost nothing for a reason. Remember a smile can go a long way and may just brighten someone’s day.

7. Decorate your environment

My room could for sure be described as a pink wonderland.

Doesn’t have to be about painting walls pink ( unless you want to, of course). Little touches to a room can make it feel more feminine just adding fresh flowers instantly give it a feminine touch. Pretty frames, prints and beautiful unique items make your room feel pretty and girly.

Those are my main tips for being a girly girl I will also recommend you watch Legally blonde, this movie will inspire you not just to be a girly girl but to also be yourself. Once you watch this movie, you will be quoting Elle Woods for the rest of your life. She is truly one of the most iconic movie characters of all time. Such an empowering movie and character.

Remember it’s all about confidence and not being ashamed, if it’s a part of you it will shine through. Don’t force it, it has to come naturally to you. Always be your true self.

With love,

Lillie xo